Wednesday, July 16, 2014

In pursuit of Happiness

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There is a thin line of difference in being human and an animal ;precisely speaking being animal and a social animal .I am a firm believer that a human being is no more than an animal who has learned to tame himself.

When does a human qualify to be a human ?Have you ever thought ,just by going to school ,or raising a family , doing the puja's , going to a place of worship do you qualify to be a human?It's only when you do the little things in life without any selfish motto you be human.Every one loves their own children ,but can you love someone else's child?Every one loves their own parents but can you love someone else's parents ?When you can do that you indeed be a human .Else you qualify nothing more than being an animal.

Have you ever noticed a small kid ,his eyes glitters when happy and is teary when sad .Why on earth does every person get attracted to kids ,it's their innocence.Why does that child suddenly changes ,what makes him change when he grows old?Is it the society to be blamed or the upbringing to be blamed .No it's just you as an individual to be blamed .

I have always felt that it's the good who feel angry ,not the bad.The one who is wronged cries not the one who is the wrong bearer.I always felt that God's a little mean ,he favors the bad ,makes them feel good ,makes them grow .But why ?I have tried to find an answer to this and yes I have a conclusion ,the more wrong you do ,God will make you merrier indeed ,just so that you fall is the hardest.Never ever forget their is no escape from the divine blow .If you have wronged some one ,Karma will bring the wrong back to you.

People just expect you to do all your duties and responsibilities towards them ,which is right ,but what about their duties towards you.Relationships are mutual ,never one sided .It's better to delete any relationship that is one sided .

Do the little things in life that make others happy ,something which according to you would bring no return .Just give a call ,talk nice ,give a warm nice hug,wish some one ,pass on a sweet smile ,do the small favors ,small gestures impart happiness.And of course never get disappointed when someone does not be nice to you ,it's their problem and not yours .You choose to be happy or sad ,you choose to be happy ,happiness is your primary responsibility toward yourself and the only responsibility that God has bestowed upon you .

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